Smoke & Honey AUTHOR Retreats

Nervous System Sanctuaries.

Write in the Smoky Mountains

Trauma-informed. Pleasure-obsessed. Destiny-focused.

  • Feeling good is medicine for your mission

  • Pleasure as writers block antidote

  • Destiny messaging

    upgrades

  • frequency channeling

  • Momentum magic


October 3-7  |  Starting at $500

The Reset Retreat: Yucca Valley

Divorce: Pleasure as Portal, Not Punishment

Divorce: Pleasure as Portal, Not Punishment

We’ve been told divorce is a failure. A fracture. A shameful end.

In my world, divorce is often the first honest yes you make to your own soul.

When you stop abandoning your pleasure in marriage, your destiny after marriage changes.

Divorce becomes:

  • rite of passage, not a scarlet letter.

  • A threshold into erotic rebirth, not a cold, lonely afterlife.

  • The moment you say: “I choose my aliveness over the performance of ‘doing it right.’”

In my Destiny Swap universe and in my Divorce Party Retreats, we:

  • Grieve honestly.

  • Rage safely.

  • Laugh wildly.

  • Reclaim your body as yours.

  • Let pleasure be the compass for what comes next: lovers, life, money, motherhood, all of it.

You don’t just “move on.”
You move into the life that was waiting for the real you.

Start Your Next Adventure

Welcome to a space designed for ideas that move people. With a focus on quality, clarity, and connection, we're here to help you make an impact that lasts.

There comes a point where “someday” starts to sound like a lie:

  • Someday I’ll write the book.

  • Someday I’ll feel at home in this changing body.

  • Someday I’ll stop pretending my marriage / life / career still fits.

Smoke & Honey: Destiny Swap Retreats are for women who are done waiting for permission and ready to make their own dreams come trueon the land, in their bodies, and in sisterhood.

I’m Dr. Megan Monday, The Pleasure Psychologist: trauma-informed, pleasure-obsessed, destiny-focused. These retreats are the living, breathing version of my work and my book Destiny Swap—except you’re not just reading the story, you’re living it.

All retreats are held in the Smoky Mountains: misty, portal-filled, ancient, and kind. The perfect place to lay an old life down and pick a new one up.

Meet Smoke & HOney Retreats

where your dreams matter too!

Make Your Own Dreams Come True in the Smoky Mountains

Get radiant and satisfied with pleasure-positive retreats that change your nervous system, your story, and your future.

Are you ready to Make your own dreams come true with a destiny swap retreat?

writing is medicine retreats

Goddess writing party

Author destiny swap Retreat

She who swaps timelines, chooses herself, her pleasure. Walks straight into a new destiny!

Read the book-Destiny Swap → join the retreat → live your own destiny swap.

start your destiny swap by finally writing that book.

I’m Dr. Megan

Trauma-Informed. Pleasure-Obsessed. Destiny-Focused.

Smoke & Honey: Destiny Swap Retreat

Make Your Own Dreams Come True. in the Smoky Mountains

Get radiant and satisfied with pleasure-positive retreats that change your nervous system, your story, and your future.

There comes a point where “someday” starts to sound like a lie:

  • Someday I’ll write the book.

  • Someday I’ll feel at home in this changing body.

  • Someday I’ll stop pretending my marriage / life / career still fits.

Smoke & Honey: Destiny Swap Retreats are for women who are done waiting for permission

and ready to make their own dreams come true—on the land, in their bodies, and in sisterhood.

Heal with me and my incredible soul sister collaborators with themed workshops just for you.

Pleasure Psychology GUIDE!